wasnt all bad since meeting you. [; not a total loss. dthe devil likes to distort what people hear , say or see of others[slander etc]. devil uses my family and car. because its a poower trip. devil knows i need my car to get anywhere in life. this one anyway. yet god can be jealous of my car-if it takes ppriority over Him.

The feeling is mutual. I understand how the devil gets root in our lives but we must overcome the adversities. God is what we must look for. Not the other way around.

CANT SERVE 2MASTERS , THATS TRUE. master can be material, not always a person. could even be a car-not even a rich one. only what it represents to owner.

A car is so much a part of a persons life that without on it can be devastating.

true, its not always a source of pride. but can be assumed so b.

That's so true. Its not about what kind of car your drive but if it gets you from one point to another.

right on. for some-its an ego. my car is too practical not to be humble. hehehe

I understand what your mean.

thanks. its not really about pride, but getting around , not being a TOTAL bum hitching rides with family/friends. sometimes its ok to accept help. hard lesson for me. i feel secure when i could pay my own way and not NEED others support, espec family[they aint rich]. i dont feel comfy driving their cars. paranoid really. im not THAT insured. hehehe plus without car, cant get/keep a job unless on bus rte. even then depending on job applied for. if its for delivery or house sitting etc, def. NEED my wheels. not about pride, but being independent.

I don't mind taking you out if you need a ride. I understand that you want to be independent and have a car when needed.

JUST DIDNT WANT YOU TO FEEL USED, I DO LIKE YOU. JUST HAVE ALOT OF PRESSURE COOKERS ON MY TAIL. and cant afford any hot water. no offense. not goin anywhere, hope that makes you feel more secure and patient. dont wanna let my guard down just to keep you around. been there, cried that[different fellow]. gotta havemy wheels!

I don't feel used. I feel happy to take my girlfriend out if she need to get out. No pressure on me and hopefull not too much on you. Just be yourself. I'll always be here for you. I know you have got to have your car.

ty for understanding. [; i knew you would, just need confirmation at times. carwise, would need it regardless of status-single or not. [no pressure]its good to have back up too in case ''our'' other car breaks down. too forward? Just thinking about what ifs. not right nows.

I know that if single or not you need transportation. And it's not too forward to call it "our" car. Because I'm happy with that. It's good to think of what if than right nows. Just to be prepared for what life throws at us.

yea, no kidding. one day at a time, yet thinking ahead just in case world does not end next week etc. good one. just want to drive again before that happens. [;

I know what you mean. It's good to plan ahead but not too far. Too a certain degree. But you've taught me about being spontaneous. And I like it.

welcome, keeps you on your toes eh? HEHE HE. YEA, BLOWN GASKET KEEPS ME ON MY TOES. HAHAHA

It sure does keep me on my toes. Just hope your blown gasket is all thats wrong with the car.

for sure, im better at expecting worst news first to be prepared . if car falls apart like last one. yikes! STORMY HERE, going offline. asap.

Cool. Take care, dear.