hey .. all i can say on this topic, speaking as a woman who has been "foolish" in her youth and has been confronted with the issue at hand, in some respects, i back steve in saying that one cannot make a real judgement call unless they are standing in the shoes of the person with the issue at hand. one's relationship with God is different from the next and the conscious plays a role in telling what is the right way to go about repentance. i do not however feel that when sin is committed, it is unforgivable, now matter the sin. i was raised in believing in a very frogiving God and i think he can forgive any sin. how and when and to what price is different in each case. to make this black or white is vertually impossible. i feel that you have to use your faith and judgement that you have been given and live, and do what you find is in accordance.